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Title: Choices : Taking Control of Your Life and Making It Matter by Melody Beattie ISBN: 0-06-050722-5 Publisher: Harper SanFrancisco Pub. Date: 27 May, 2003 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 5 (3 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: Timeless lessons from author who writes like an old friend.
Comment: Like Billy Pilgrim, the protagonist in Kurt Vonnegut's Slaughterhouse Five, Melody Beattie has come unstuck in time. When Billy Pilgrim ceases to experience his life in chronological order, he learns from the invisible inhabitants of the planet Trafalmadore that life is a collection of moments, and that our job is to concentrate on the good ones and try to ignore the bad.
Melody Beattie is wiser than a Trafalmadorian. With Choices, she takes us on a journey, skipping from one moment to the next, in her own life and the lives of many others. And whether the moment is about celebrating a victory, dealing with a child's death, jumping out of an airplane, taking a horseback riding lesson, or simply being indecisive, Melody will convince you that every moment is important, and that every moment holds the potential for choice.
As a psychotherapist and author (Embracing Fear, HarperSanFrancisco 2002) I frequently emphasize to clients and readers that there is an important difference between being "in control," and being "in charge." Melody's new book is a wonderful collection of lessons about how to be in charge even when we seemingly control nothing.
These lessons are not really unstuck in time; they transend time. They are timeless, and well worth reading.
Rating: 5
Summary: Something For Everyone
Comment: This is a book of short essays written for the average person who doesn't care or simply doesn't know the psycho-babble terms written by professionals that only other professionals can comprehend.
No matter what your life experiences or level of education there simply has to be a short story that hits home . I have read many books on relationships,psychology etc, and this book is just great.
For someone just getting started in self help and rebuilding
relationships and personal growth this is a great book.
Rating: 5
Summary: Something for everyone
Comment: Choices is a series of short essays, each two or three pages long, each illustrating a point the author wants to make. Some are New Age-y: A woman closing her business is surprised when someone says, "I feel that I should speak to you..." Others are more straightforward and down-to-earth.
I couldn't relate to all -- even most -- of the stories here. If you haven't had the experience, the story is meaningless. Several involve getting tough about relationships.
Two essays were especially powerful: "She saw a monster in her bedroom" is about a woman who realizes she must leave to escape a "monster" husband -- at age seventy-one. Beattie concludes, "It's hard to be a newcomer at anything."
"He had to backtrack" is the story of a young delinquent who turns his life around after a gifted counselor roots out long-buried feelings.
I see each episode as a turning point rather than a choice: each time the protagonist hit bottom, his or her life changed. It's not always about choices: the delinquent doesn't face a crossroads.
I'd probably recommend this book to clients whose lives felt out of control, who wanted role models and examples of taking charge, or who wanted to understand the concept of change.
One negative: Each chapter ends with a small lesson that could be omitted. It's overkill. The book's power comes from the stories and the way Beattie tells them. The lessons themselves are not particularly new or original. Leave them out.
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Title: Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie ISBN: 0894864025 Publisher: Hazelden Information Education Pub. Date: January, 1997 List Price(USD): $13.95 |
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Title: Finding Your Way Home : A Soul Survival Kit by Melody Beattie ISBN: 0062511181 Publisher: Harper SanFrancisco Pub. Date: 01 September, 1998 List Price(USD): $14.00 |
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Title: The Language of Letting Go by Melody Beattie ISBN: 0894866370 Publisher: Hazelden Information Education Pub. Date: 01 July, 1996 List Price(USD): $16.00 |
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Title: Beyond Codependency: And Getting Better All the Time by Melody Beattie ISBN: 0894865838 Publisher: Hazelden Information Education Pub. Date: July, 1996 List Price(USD): $13.95 |
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Title: Codependents' Guide to the Twelve Steps : How to Find the Right Program for You and Apply Each of the Twelve Steps to Your Own Issues by Melody Beattie ISBN: 0671762273 Publisher: Fireside Pub. Date: 09 April, 1992 List Price(USD): $13.00 |
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