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Title: Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a Child by Laura Davis ISBN: 0-06-096883-4 Publisher: Perennial Pub. Date: 11 September, 1991 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $16.00 |
Average Customer Rating: 3.86 (21 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: Supporters Find Answers in Allies in Healing
Comment: If The Courage To Heal is the sine qua non for survivors of child sexual abuse, Allies in Healing is required reading for partners and loved ones of survivors and victims.
Written in straightforward question and answer format by one of the authors of the best-selling Courage To Heal, Allies in Healing covers topics ranging from dealing with emotions (your own included) to confronting the perpetrator to sexuality.
Allies In Healing also includes the personal stories of a few partners of survivors. Written frankly, the book admits that not all relationships with survivors are destined for success, but also speaks of the incredible benefits of such a relationship.
For anyone who is a loved one or partner of a survivor should turn to this book first- it is the companion to Courage To Heal and will provide many answers to some of the most pressing questions.
Rating: 5
Summary: Wonderful Resource for BOTH survivors and their allies!
Comment: As a survivor of child sexual abuse, I am grateful that Laura Davis complied all the information from her workshops for partners into this book. It should be required reading for anyone in a relationship with a survivor. There are so few resources for partners and the survivor can't explain it all. Healing is a two person job when you're in a relationship.
The question and answer format makes it very user friendly. Read it cover to cover, or just pick it up when you feel puzzled.
As the author suggests, I read it first and found that it gave me words to explain some topics that I thought I'd never be able to express. Sharing this book with my fiance was not easy. But it drew us closer together and opened the door for wonderfully insightful discussion. It also gave me insight into what it is like for someone in a relationship with me. I learned to be more patient and compassionate. Understanding the after effects of childhood molestation are not simple or easy, not just for me, but also for my partner.
I love that Davis very forthrightly says that while not every relationship will thrive, there are wonderful benefits to being with a survivor. The partner is encouraged NOT to rescue or "fix" but rather to respect and grow with the survivor, perhaps even getting more in touch with their own wounded inner child and most importantly to get support for themselves.
For anyone who is an ally of a survivor, this should be in your collection for sure! I turn to it again and again just as I do my now ragged copy of The Courage to Heal. It is not for the timid however. One should be serious about their relationship before sharing this book.
Rating: 4
Summary: An allie and a survivor
Comment: I am a survior who is also an ally in healing. This book is quite good in helping you to help others. It is written by one of the authors of Courage in Healing.
I recommend reading this book if you are trying to help someone who is a survivor
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Title: The Courage to Heal - Third Edition - Revised and Expanded : A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Ellen Bass, Laura Davis ISBN: 0060950668 Publisher: Perennial Pub. Date: 29 June, 1994 List Price(USD): $22.50 |
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Title: What About Me? A Guide for Men Helping Female Partners Deal with Childhood Sexual Abuse by Grant Cameron ISBN: 0921165382 Publisher: Creative Bound Pub. Date: 01 June, 1994 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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Title: The Courage to Heal Workbook : A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse by Laura Davis ISBN: 0060964375 Publisher: Perennial Pub. Date: 28 February, 1990 List Price(USD): $22.95 |
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Title: Ghosts in the Bedroom: A Guide for Partners of Incest Survivors by Ken Graber ISBN: 155874116X Publisher: Health Communications Pub. Date: 01 March, 1991 List Price(USD): $8.95 |
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Title: The Sexual Healing Journey : A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Revised Edition) by Wendy Maltz ISBN: 0060959649 Publisher: Quill Pub. Date: 19 February, 2001 List Price(USD): $14.00 |
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