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Title: I Only Say This Because I Love You : Talking to Your Parents, Partner, Sibs, and Kids When You're All Adults by Deborah Tannen ISBN: 0-345-40752-0 Publisher: Ballantine Books Pub. Date: 28 May, 2002 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $15.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 5 (2 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: really really really really good. really.
Comment: I cannot express how much this book has helped me understand what's going on in my family. A lot of arguments in my family center around who said what, how they said it, and why they said it. And Tannen provides almost all of the tools necessary for us to even think about reconciling.
This really is an enlightening book. What it does do, is explain what goes on in a particular aspect of any family - she explains how family arguments and conversations work, why some things are said but other left unsaid, and provides some suggestions and advice for going back and fixing some of those misunderstandings. She provides a really comprehensive overview of whole family setups, organizations, and tons of possible situations.
She doesn't say "here's how to fix your problems - they shall all be solved". She can't - she's not your own psychologist. But there is so much information to work with, that for a majority of families this will definitely provide a really good and solid basis for reconciling, and even allowing family members to start talking to each other civily again.
Tannen has done tons of research, and provides many examples from all types of families throughout the whole book - grandparents, partners, families with children, families without children, cross-culture families, etc.. I do have to completely agree with another reader that the examples Tannen gives could have been plucked straight from my life. I found one line in particular that could actually explain away years of misunderstanding between two whole branches of my family, myself included. It's also a very fast read - I read it through in just a few days, and I'm a slow reader.
If anyone in your family is even remotely having difficulties talking to others in your family, you should buy this book. I can't tell you how much it's helped me already. Had to buy two more copies of the book for other family members to "borrow".
Rating: 5
Summary: Insight into "enemy camp?"
Comment: This book is one I will reread over and over again. I wanted to highlight everything because the innumerous examples could have been plucked right out out of my own life.
Deborah Tannen explains so logically how linguistics can cause all types of mixed messages during an interaction with someone. Even when our intentions are good, it's now easy to see how we could be misinterpreted and how fights and long held grudges could be avoided or amended.
Because of this book, I now have an objective, aerial view of situations before they get out of hand with flying accusations. Deborah Tannen has given me insight into "enemy camp" and I realize now that someone I perceive as my enemy, may not be after all. That's a huge relief and a sure recipe for less painful drama in my life.
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Title: You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation by Deborah Tannen ISBN: 0060959622 Publisher: Quill Pub. Date: 24 July, 2001 List Price(USD): $14.00 |
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Title: That's Not What I Meant! by Deborah Tannen ISBN: 0345340906 Publisher: Ballantine Books Pub. Date: 12 March, 1987 List Price(USD): $6.99 |
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Title: The Argument Culture : Moving from Debate to Dialogue by DEBORAH TANNEN ISBN: 0345407512 Publisher: Ballantine Books Pub. Date: 09 February, 1999 List Price(USD): $14.00 |
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Title: Talking from 9 to 5 : Women and Men at Work by Deborah Tannen ISBN: 0380717832 Publisher: Quill Pub. Date: 01 September, 1995 List Price(USD): $13.00 |
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Title: Gender and Discourse by Deborah Tannen ISBN: 0195101243 Publisher: Oxford Press Pub. Date: January, 1996 List Price(USD): $14.95 |
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