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Title: Don't Call It Love: Recovery from Sexual Addiction by Patrick J., Ph.D. Carnes ISBN: 0553351389 Publisher: Bantam Books Pub. Date: April, 1992 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $16.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 4.64
Rating: 5
Summary: Very Helpful!
Comment: As an addictions counselor and author, I found Carnes's work to be very insigtful and helpful. He has done a wonderful job highlighting a problem that is not often discussed and certainly misunderstood. I recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn more about sexual addiction. Please be sure to include this title as part of your recovery.
John D. Moore
Author of Confusing Love with Obsession
Rating: 5
Summary: Positively Stunning
Comment: The world would be a remarkably better place if "Don't Call it Love" could be required reading for all humanity.
This book documents the results of a study that looked at people who identified themselves as tending to act in a compulsive manner sexually. There is no shame here, no accusations, and no demands, simply concurrent statements of fact. This was Carnes' study and these are the results.
If you've ever wondered, ever even suspected, by the time you finish this book you will know for sure, one way or the other.
I also read "Out of the Shadows," by Carnes. It rang true in the same way, and I've found that many people can finish it in one sitting. "Don't call it love" takes longer, but is much more comprehensive. I strongly reccomend buying both, starting with "Out of the Shadows" and then moving on to this one.
Bottom Line; whether or not you or someone you know struggles with sexually compulsive behavior, what you will learn from this book will help you understand the psycology of addiction and make you a more compassionate human being.
Far and away the best book on the topic I have ever read.
Rating: 5
Summary: Excellent discussion of addiction, sexual and otherwise
Comment: His explanantion and discussion of addiction, in particular his explanantion of the Additive Model of Addiction, is worth the price of the book all by itself (actually, the book is a real bargain for the price). He discusses clearly the etiology of the sex addict, relating how a person becomes involved in compulsive sexual acting out and why, and includes resource references, such as contact nos. for SCA, SA, SLAA, et al.
His "Out of the Shadows" is also a very good book on this topic, but in treating the topic of addiction, he stays within the confines of sexual addiction, and so if you are new to learning about addictions, some points may be lost on you. They are both worth getting and reading (I have both), but if you want to buy only one, and are wondering which to get, I recommend this one over OOTS-- but only because it treats both addiction in general as well as what it looks like in the context of sex. Thus I feel this book is more comprehensive.
If you even suspect you may have a sexual compulsion, buy this book and decide about yourself for yourself.
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Title: Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction by Patrick J. Carnes ISBN: 1568386214 Publisher: Hazelden Information Education Pub. Date: 01 May, 2001 List Price(USD): $16.00 |
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Title: Facing the Shadow: Starting Sexual and Relationship Recovery by Patrick J. Carnes ISBN: 1929866011 Publisher: Gentle Path Press Pub. Date: 01 September, 2001 List Price(USD): $19.95 |
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Title: Contrary to Love: Helping the Sexual Addict by Patrick J. Carnes ISBN: 1568380593 Publisher: Compcare Pubns Pub. Date: July, 1989 List Price(USD): $14.00 |
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Title: Living With Your Husband's Secret Wars by Marsha Means ISBN: 0800757106 Publisher: Fleming H Revell Co Pub. Date: September, 1999 List Price(USD): $12.99 |
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Title: A Gentle Path Through the Twelve Steps: The Classic Guide for All People in the Process of Recovery by Patrick J. Carnes ISBN: 1568380585 Publisher: Compcare Pubns Pub. Date: 01 September, 1994 List Price(USD): $17.00 |
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