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Title: Perfect Daughters (Revised Edition) by Robert J. Ackerman ISBN: 1-55874-952-7 Publisher: Health Communications Pub. Date: 01 July, 2002 Format: Paperback Volumes: 1 List Price(USD): $12.95 |
Average Customer Rating: 4.38 (8 reviews)
Rating: 5
Summary: The Perfect Daughter
Comment: I am a child of an alcoholic Mother. I try very hard to avoid books that talk about adult children of Alcoholics becuase they usually make things sound very over technical and impersonal. I am not a very emotional person and I know the decisions I make in my life are because of my families alcoholic issues. However, this was a book that was not very hard to read and I would highly recoomend it. After reading the very first story and bawling my eyes out about that little family princess who never understood and was always trying to make it okay, I knew the book was for me to read. That's ME!!! That's ME!!! I kept saying over and over. Ironically I highlighted every sentence and passage that had to do with my childhood and feelings in the book and I believe I ended up with 90% of it highlighted. I couldn't help to think that someone had a hidden journal on my heart and feelings growing up. If only that person had stepped in when I was young what a difference it would have made. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THIS BOOK!!!
Rating: 5
Summary: An epiphany of understanding!
Comment: While my family was not one of staggering drunks and physical or overt verbal abuse, this books sheds light on why I feel the way that I do! It's easy to get turned off at first by the overt drunks experiences of many of the people's stories presented here if you yourself didn't experience that. The MOST valuable part of the book is a look at different personality traits that you may have developed during your not-so-normal childhood. This books points out the positive things that ACoA's have learned from their experiences and how to use those to our greatest advantage, while understanding and working on some of the traits we developed that are not useful to us as adults. I highly recommend this book - and that you read it several times!
Rating: 1
Summary: Barely useful
Comment: Because my parents were not falling-down drunks, did not pass out before I came home from school or abuse me in the usual dramatic and overt ways, it was many years before I saw that the lack of complex, deep and interested parenting contributed to my aimlessness and confusion. Ackerman focuses on individuals whose childhoods were mainly marked by, I guess you'd call it, SEVERE alcoholism.
Nor is this book is well written, the information could probably be better presented as the charts and graphs he wants to interpret. But it's still not very useful information.
I just can't get into the perennial victim space; maybe that's why it falls short for me. On the other hand, I absolutely display the evidence of an "adult child...": I have no children (and no desire); finally made a late in life marriage that is failing now, attraction to all the wrong sorts and an ingrained tendency to want to please everyone all the time.
Interesting bits in the book, but too much heavy mining for me.
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Title: Adult Children of Alcoholics : Expanded Edition by Janet Woititz ISBN: 1558741127 Publisher: Health Communications Pub. Date: 01 November, 1990 List Price(USD): $10.95 |
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Title: Struggle for Intimacy by Janet Woititz ISBN: 0932194257 Publisher: Health Communications Pub. Date: 01 August, 1986 List Price(USD): $6.95 |
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Title: An Adult Child's Guide to What's Normal by John C. Friel Ph.D., Linda D. Friel M.A. ISBN: 1558740902 Publisher: Health Communications Pub. Date: 01 September, 1990 List Price(USD): $9.95 |
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Title: It Will Never Happen to Me! by Claudia Black ISBN: 0345345940 Publisher: Ballantine Books Pub. Date: 12 September, 1987 List Price(USD): $6.99 |
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Title: RECOVERY : A GUIDE FOR ADULT CHILDREN OF ALCOHOLICS by Herbert L. Gravitz, Julie D. Bowden ISBN: 0671645285 Publisher: Fireside Pub. Date: 15 September, 1987 List Price(USD): $11.00 |
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